Breathwork, Co-Parenting, and Honoring the People Who Helped Shape You
- caputovincenzo
- Apr 26
- 2 min read
A Tribute to My Ex-Wife—and the Power of Breathing Through Life’s Transitions
Not every chapter ends in chaos.
Some end in growth, respect, and gratitude.
This isn’t a typical blog post about breathwork.
This is about honoring the people who’ve been part of your journey—especially the ones who’ve stood by you through your evolution, even when the relationship had to change.
I want to take a moment to acknowledge someone important in my life—Anna, my ex-wife.
We may not be together anymore, but she’s played a huge role in shaping the man I am today.
She’s not just the mother of my children—she’s a reflection of years of shared experiences, lessons, and resilience.
Breathing Through the Hard Conversations
Let’s be honest—separation isn’t easy.
Emotions run high. Ego gets loud.
It’s easy to fall into blame, anger, or regret.
But breathwork taught me something powerful:
When emotions rise, don’t react—breathe.
I’ve used breathwork to navigate:
The tough conversations
The moments of misunderstanding
The waves of guilt or frustration
The pressure of co-parenting while rebuilding my own life
Every time I wanted to lash out or shut down, I reminded myself—
“Inhale. Exhale. Respond with clarity, not emotion.”
That practice didn’t just help me—it protected the relationship Anna and I rebuilt as co-parents and friends.
Gratitude Over Grudges
It’s easy to focus on what didn’t work.
But there’s real power in focusing on what did.
Anna and I built a family.
We shared years of life lessons.
And today, we stand in a place of mutual respect—because we chose to breathe through the pain instead of fueling it.
How Breathwork Supports Emotional Maturity
Breathwork isn’t just about stress relief—it’s about emotional regulation and self-awareness.
It helps you:
✅ Pause before reacting
✅ Release resentment before it festers
✅ Stay grounded during conflict
✅ Lead with gratitude, even when it’s hard
These are the tools that allowed me to honor Anna—not just privately, but publicly.
Because strong men don’t tear down their past—they respect it.
Honor Your Journey. Honor Your People.
Whether it’s an ex, a friend, or family—
There’s someone in your life who deserves gratitude, even if your paths have shifted.
Take a breath.
Let go of the story that it has to end badly.
Choose peace. Choose maturity.
And if you don’t know how to get there—let breathwork guide you.
Join me for a session.
Learn how to breathe through the emotions, so you can lead with clarity and respect.
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