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Stop Getting in Your Own Way

How Breathwork Helps You Break the Cycle of Self-Sabotage


You say you want peace…

But you keep choosing chaos.

You say you want love…

But you keep running from it.

You say you want growth…

But you keep avoiding the work.


Sound familiar?


This isn’t a judgment.

It’s a wake-up call.


You’re not broken.

You’re just stuck in a pattern.

And it’s time to break it.



What Is Self-Sabotage, Really?


It’s not laziness. It’s not stupidity.

It’s your nervous system doing its job—keeping you in the familiar.


Even if the familiar is:


  • Overthinking

  • Ghosting opportunities

  • Starting and stopping

  • Sabotaging relationships

  • Procrastinating on your purpose



It’s the mind saying:

“This is unsafe.”

When in reality?

It’s just uncomfortable because it’s new.



Breathwork Interrupts the Pattern


You can’t think your way out of self-sabotage.

You’ve already tried.

The real solution?

Get out of your head and into your body.


Breathwork creates the space to:

✅ Feel without reacting

✅ Break automatic responses

✅ Calm your nervous system so you can choose differently

✅ Stop running—and finally face what’s underneath


When you breathe through your discomfort, you gain the power to move forward without blowing things up.



How to Know You’re Self-Sabotaging


Ask yourself:

🔁 Do I keep repeating cycles in relationships, work, or health?

🤐 Do I silence my truth out of fear of being “too much”?

🧠 Do I overthink every decision until I do nothing?

😤 Do I push people away just as things get good?


Then ask this:

Who would I be without this pattern?


That version of you?

He’s already in there.

You just need to breathe him to the surface.



Let’s Break the Loop


Every time you sabotage yourself, you’re choosing safety over greatness.

And I get it. That pattern served you once.

But it’s not who you are anymore.


If you’re ready to stop the cycle—

To stop running from your own potential—

Then it’s time to step in the arena.


Breathe. Reset. Rise.

 
 
 

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